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I am a Marriage and Family Counselor, Author and teacher. I also own a Real Estate Investment business, but much more important than that………….
I am passionate about helping people build genuine connections rather than simply going through the motions and feeling isolated. In today’s world—dominated by social media, automation, and chaos—it can be incredibly challenging to find relationships that are authentic and deeply fulfilling. But they do exist: those rare connections where you feel truly seen, understood, and like you belong.
Since my teenage years growing up in Europe, I’ve been driven to help people uncover the patterns, behaviors, and beliefs that keep them trapped in loneliness. I recognized the power of community, but I also saw how desperately people tried to connect—often by abandoning their true selves and adopting behaviors they thought would earn acceptance.
I understand this struggle deeply because I lived it. Growing up, I wasn’t encouraged to be myself, and I often felt desperate to fit in. I battled depression and confusion, constantly molding myself into what I thought others wanted. My biggest fear was, “If they really knew me, they wouldn’t like me.” I forced positivity, participated in activities that didn’t resonate with me, and overextended myself in friendships just to prove my worth.But over time, I realized something life-changing: even if I couldn’t please everyone, there were people out there who would love me for who I truly am. I learned to express my thoughts and feelings honestly, to embrace my worth, and to stop apologizing for simply existing. As I shifted my energy, I began to attract my tribe—people who valued me for my authentic self.
This journey has been so liberating and empowering that I’m committed to sharing it with you. If you’ve found your way here, it’s no accident. You’re here because you’re ready to discover the same freedom and connection I’ve found.
©2025 by Christina de Valencia